From Elf Mode to Money Mode: Unmasking your financial identity.

For a long time, I believed I would always be “Vanessa Dean, frivolous spender.”

ADHD made every money mistake feel personal, every slip feel final, and every win easy to overlook.
But small moments—like sticking to a grocery list—slowly changed how I saw myself.

Those wins didn’t just change my habits.
They changed my identity.